It’s not wrong for a man to wear woman’s underwear, but it IS wrong for any person to put on anyone else’s underwear without asking. If he wants to wear woman’s underwear, he should buy his own.

MC: I’m glad you brought up that topic, but the last bit that transsexuals and transvestites are usually homosexuals is completely incorrect and only furthers the stigma. And if a transsexual is gay, it really has nothing to do with the fact that they are transsexual. If a Man is born in a womans body, has a gender change, and likes women, he is HETEROsexual. It’s all very confusing but I am nonetheless glad you had the B@lls to bring up the subject. I’m a psych major, and I really don’t think there’s a sexual or gender problem with this man, just that he didn’t go about it the right way. She wouldn’t sodomize him without asking then say ‘oh thought you’d like it!’ they just need to learn to communicate and respect each others boundries

My man wears my panties for the same reason. At first I was kind like uhhh… but it’s a huge turn on that it’s such a turn on for him. I like it. She shouldn’t be such a prude to tryin new things that HE clearly likes.

My partner enjoys and has done the same thing. I was only upset because he didn’t ask me first, and stretched out a pair of underwear I really liked. I don’t have a problem with it, but mate 1 needs to shell out the cash for his own. Mate 2 should loosen up. Obviously stuck in weird gender roles (you don’t want to be a kitchen slave, do you sweetie?).

I personally think it’s funny, but whatever rocks your boat! talk about the new things you want to try before you try them save you and your partner the laugh!

Why would you just assume that putting on her underwear would spice things up? You can’t just tell her what would turn her on. For all you know, she thought your relationship was spicy enough. If that was the case, you kind of came off as a total @#$%.

Both parties need to be okay with it. Mate 1 should have discussed this with Mate 2 ahead of time.

oh come on! Get over it! It was something that he wanted to do. What if you wanted to try a particular sex act and he pounced all over you calling it disturbing and gross? That’s so disrespectful! They’re your partner. You should AT LEAST be respectful if not being in agreement with the act. Jeesh! And it’s ok! If it’s something he enjoys…then be supportive and not destructive! Love is unconditional baby…

Dude….I’m 51 years young and just from reading the headline, I cringed back from my computer. NO, NO, NO….how old are you, where did you get this idea? Do you have feelings of being a cross-dresser, and I am not ridiculing you if you have. I don’t know one man that would put on my thongs (yes at 51 I look like I’m in my 40’s, therefore I have thongs LOL) I would not even be able to have sex with him. Now in kidding around I have told someone to put my bra on, not anywhere near wanting to have sex, just being funny while folding the laundry. Of course he dug his heels in for quiet a while but finally pulled shoulder straps on his arms…took all the fun out of it. NEVER, EVER, EVER wear any woman’s undergarments thinking it will turn her on. Trust me, If you would have switched on a vibrator….now that would have gone over BIG.

hey if i saw my man in my underwear i would not be ridiculing him but I would be worried that he could actually fit into that may be the problem I know it would be if I was in her situation