Next Conflict »
Category: Other

i like smoking pot and he doesn't

Report this conflict
Share this: Facebook Twitter Email

Mate 1

I enjoy having fun once in a while.

Mate 2

He has issues with smoking because his grandfather died of lung cancer

Who do you agree with?

You're now a Casual Ref (0 points)
Click here to redeem

Time expired.

Most people agree with cast your vote to see

Weigh in on this conflict
Share your thoughts and advice »
To add your comment, Login / Register or
Our photo

Jade

NO NO NO!! This one is too fundamental of a difference. One is saying: “I like doing illegal drugs”..(even though I don’t think it should be illegal)…and the other is saying :“I don’t want a partner who does illegal, harmful drugs.” Back away from the partner you’re facing and go find someone who operates on your wavelength. Think about it…if this lasts into a marriage. Do you really want a home where your kids can stumble onto mom’s fun stash?
Sounds like ya’ll are on different levels of maturity.

Good advice? Yes (1) | No (0)   Too Harsh? Let Us Know.
Our photo

Dane

What Jade said.

Good advice? Yes (0) | No (0)   Too Harsh? Let Us Know.
Our photo

Doug

Jade is spot on the mark. Nothing more needs saying.

Good advice? Yes (0) | No (0)   Too Harsh? Let Us Know.
Our photo

Danielle

http://www.webmd.com/lung-cancer/news/20060523/pot-smoking-not-linked-to-lung-cancer

Good advice? Yes (0) | No (0)   Too Harsh? Let Us Know.
Our photo

Sarah

This isn’t some dislike he just gained, death is a big thing for someone. If you want to keep doing it, but he wants you to stop, then this relationship is better off ending.

Good advice? Yes (0) | No (0)   Too Harsh? Let Us Know.
Our photo

Jacque

Yeah, this can not be worked out. This needs to be something you agree on.

Good advice? Yes (0) | No (0)   Too Harsh? Let Us Know.
Our photo

Erin and Danny (VIP)

linked this one to my SO, who will have something much more intelligent to say than i. but for now, i’ll say i agree with Jade that it’s too big of a difference. if he doesn’t object to you doing it and you don’t mind that he won’t do it, that’s fine. if he’s trying to stop you, it’s not going to work out.

-erin

Good advice? Yes (0) | No (0)   Too Harsh? Let Us Know.
Our photo

Ben

look into an atomizer

Good advice? Yes (0) | No (0)   Too Harsh? Let Us Know.

Loading next conflict

Loading